1-on-1 Coaching

Work with Ruwan

I’ve coached hundreds of men and couples since 2013 — mostly on relationships, dating, purpose, and presence.

I work with only a few individuals and couples at a time. Fill out the form and let’s see if we’re a good fit.

In their words

“In the darkest time of my life, Ruwan gave me guidance and a feeling of camaraderie. His sophisticated understanding of the male psyche was crucial for my journey.”

— Patrick Heym, radio host, Germany ▶ watch

“Before working with Ruwan I was totally lost. I didn’t get respect from women. I didn’t feel good in my own body. Working with him gave me a big push to where I am now.”

— Miiska van Renterghem, men’s coach, Finland ▶ watch

“I experienced more in one session with him than in six months of therapy.”

— Coralie S.

“We fixed my emotional problem in one month. It saved my relationship.”

— Rick, Santa Monica

“Ruwan has great presence and really listens. He helped me take massive action, out of my comfort zone — from an intangible business idea to a website, blog, and clients in a matter of weeks.”

— David Wang, New York

“Ruwan is gentle yet deep. His coaching brought deep shifts in my thinking. He’s pragmatic and helps you stay on track — and you’ll enjoy the process.”

— Anoop, India

“Ruwan listens beyond the words I’m saying — he gets the stuff I didn’t say but meant to. He asks excellent questions that take me to my blind spots.”

— Maros, Slovakia

“I’ve always lived life as a follower. Ruwan guided me to take steps toward my goals and let go of the baggage I’d been carrying.”

— Nick, Savannah, GA

“Before I worked with Ruwan I missed so many opportunities with women. Now I have so much more confidence and trust in my intuition.”

— Nathan D.