Hi, I'm Ruwan


I help men get unstuck.

Life ought to be an adventure.
I want to help you with yours.

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Most guys reach out to me to achieve fulfillment in intimate relationships or their life purpose.


But what really fires me up is helping guys express their full potential. 


I get pissed off seeing men live lives of quiet desperation.  


You have the potential to be a powerful man.


That means getting in touch with your darkness.


That means making bold moves.


And sometimes, that means seeking guidance.

How to Conquer Anxiety,

a meditative lesson for Men

Anxiety is the most primal experience of “something ain’t right.” 


If you want to materialize your goals and create your ideal reality, you need to first get over this block.


In one sitting, this meditative lesson will give you all the tools you need to eliminate anxiety. It will also help you conquer the effects of anxiety that are common to men— apathy, frustration, and mental fog.

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I know the pains of feeling stuck. For a long time I struggled with severe anxiety and dysphoria. 


I was fortunate enough to stumble on certain adventures and teachers that helped me become someone I’m proud to be today.


If you want to learn more about backstory, read about when I was in a matriarchal sex cult.


Parts of my story have been covered by BBC, Playboy, Bloomberg, and an upcoming docuseries on a major streaming network.

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My work draws largely on Jungian psych, somatic training, and many of the experts I meet on my podcast.


I tend to focus on the dark stuff, the things that we tend to shove into the depths of our unconscious, the primal, the instinctual, the animal.


But more than anything else, I believe in taking action.


Because when you take the right ACTION, good things happen...

Here are a few words from some people who have worked with me:

David Wang

New York

"Ruwan has great presence and really listens to you as a coach.
He has helped me take massive action towards my goals, take me out of my comfort zone, and provide the necessary support. I went from an intangible business idea to having a website, blog, and clients in a matter of weeks."

Anoop G


"Ruwan is gentle yet deep. His coaching inspires 'A truly better tomorrow' in you and makes you wanna create it in a flow state. His coaching helped me see details I wasn't paying attention to but brought in deep shifts in my thinking. He is pragmatic and helps you stay on track. But the best part is, with Ruwan, you will want to enjoy the process."


Savannah, GA

"I've always lived a life of a follower and not someone who typically takes action to create the life that I want.
Ruwan has guided me to take steps to accomplishing my life goals, create the life that I want and let go of the mental baggage that I've been carrying around. I was always tired or living in a constant state of low energy. Ruwan's insight showed me ways to live an abundant and energetic life, and how my energy can impact others in a positive way."

More testimonials can be found on my Coaching page.



If you think I can help you, I recommend either checking out my courses, or reaching out for coaching. 

You can also Contact Me here.

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